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Hockey is My Boyfriend

Last season, James Mirtle pointed out a letter to an advice columnist from a girl dating a Pittsburgh fan asking for help. The letter and consequent post is entertaining as the "off-season girlfriend" writes, but the comments from the post also provide some amusing fodder.

As we saw in the movie FeverPitch (a chick flick about a Red Sox-obsessed fan and his girlfriend), any sport-crazed fan will likely result in some interesting situations with the significant other.

Anyways, I mention all of this because Wrap Around Curl is asking for hockey fans to submit their personal stories:

I’d like to take a look at instances of hockey affecting relationships and relationships affecting hockey etc. I hope to gather a bunch of anecdotes to share and to see if there are any overall themes and write a mega post or break it by the survey questions.  I’d love to get as many responses as possible. So if you want to participate, email me and there is more info in the email to answer your burning questions.

So drop me a line; wraparoundcurl@gmail.com

I found out about the request for stories from Kris, who aptly wrote this about her Red Wings' fanship:

If you're like me, your friends have had a running joke for several years saying that the only real relationship you'll ever have is with the Red Wings. According to some, hockey has gotten me through more cold winter nights than any man every could. This says nothing good about the state of my life.

Personally, it's definitely been an issue. I can only date guys who are really into sports. If a guy isn't a big sports fan, it's too hard for him to understand why I care about hockey so much since it's not just a hobby for me but work too. Now they don't have to be huge hockey fans, but they have to put up with all my hockey talk. For example, I was dating this guy and watched/talked Tigers' baseball with him, but he knew he had to learn about hockey. I even had him sit down and watch one of the games from the Red Wings' A Celebration of Champions DVD set because we started dating towards the end of the off-season.

With my friends, it's always interesting because I work home Red Wings  and U-M hockey games, which means I miss out on a lot of events and nights out. I'm always apologizing, saying I'm sorry I can't make it to your birthday celebration or go out tonight, but I got a hockey game tonight I have to work. Sometimes I really do feel like hockey is my boyfriend. Haha.

So while Red Wings' news is a bit slow, why don't you share with other WIM readers how it has impacted your relationships (friends and significant others). This goes for both our male and female readers.

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I wish I had a girlfiend who knew about hockey...

…actually I wish I could just find a girlfriend who is normal and not psycho, let alone one who knows the ins and outs of hockey, baseball, and football.

by jryno on Jul 28, 2009 11:49 PM CDT reply actions  

I wish I had a boyfriend that loved Hockey as much as I do. All the guys I’ve dated or liked, love football, or baseball first, or just don’t like Hockey or know anything about it at all.

"Be not afraid of greatness: some are born great, some achieve greatness and some have greatness thrust upon them." - (Twelfth Night; Act II, Scene V).

by Hockeytown_ice on Jul 29, 2009 2:00 AM CDT reply actions  

Today I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth.

Being stuck out here in the middle of Iowa where very few people care for hockey at all can be a little challenging sometimes. But my girlfriend is making the effort. It is coming up on 2 years now and I think the excitement of winning the cup last year and being so strong again this year has really helped but she is learning the game and developing educated opinions for herself. Her favorite player is Pavel because “he is fun to watch start and stop and skate around people” and when she turned to me at the bar during the Stanley Cup Finals this year and said, “Hossa is an asshole. I know he is on our team now but what a dick.” I knew this was the one. We are getting married in September and plan to be in Detroit to catch a Wings game and a Lions game in November. The Lions are a much tougher sell but I cant complain.

by IowaLion on Jul 29, 2009 12:49 PM CDT reply actions  

My husband is a Wings fan as am I but he thinks that the fact that I need to stay informed of the goings on of hockey in the off season borders on insanity. I think hockey has brought us closer together but when things don’t go well for the Wings we are both crabby bastards. I’d say hockey definitely affects our relationship, good and bad.

Football is a different story – I am a Packer fan and he is a Lions fan. Fun times.

by jennyquarx on Jul 29, 2009 12:56 PM CDT reply actions  

I was with a mother of 2 on and off for a few years. She tolerated hockey/football, her daughter didn’t like sports at all, but I got her son into the Detroit teams big-time. (I was pretty much his dad for over half of his young 6 years of life). I gave him my old Yzerman jersey, went down past his knees. He would cry like crazy on school nights when he couldn’t finish watching a Wings game with me. I’ve heard from relatives he still wears it to bed every night.
I can’t have kids without the extremely EXPENSIVE miracle of science, I miss him…

If there are any women who likes sports, sex and beer, doesn’t have kids, isn’t about money, isn’t a cheating whore, has low standards and lives in SE Michigan/NW Ohio, send me an e-mail :-)

by JazzyBBP on Jul 29, 2009 5:31 PM CDT reply actions  

Speaking of jersey's...

I was given a Wings jersey, #10 with my name “Justin” on it, back when I was a child. Now I have a little girl, she’s 2 1/2, and she wore it during the playoffs. It became good luck, so she had to wear it every game she was with me. It was a little long, almost like a dress on her, but it was so cute. She loved it, though she never wore as a night gown when she went to bed.

Memories like those will always bring a smile to a parents (I include you in that Jazzy, though he wasn’t yours) face.

And hell, trying to use this as a meet and greet is a helluva lot cheaper than eharmony, they want $50+/month. Ugh…

by jryno on Jul 29, 2009 8:27 PM CDT up reply actions  

Not even my own family/friends get my Wings obsession let alone g/f's

Wings are the team I live and die by out of all my Detroit teams. Dated girls who are into football or baseball,but hardly ever really understood or watched hockey besides the local ECHL Toledo team,formerly the Storm now coming back as the gulps still a lil unhappy about the name ….Walleye. If a Wings game is on I’m only either at home, or at a sports bar where I know I’ll be able to view the game and anywhere else is out of the question regardless of what might be going on. I remember June 1997,my older cousins grad party and come gametime for Game 4 I did not move from my uncle’s big screen until we had Stanley Cup in hand even though i was recording the game at home. Playoff time,I dont shave besides right before game 1 of round 1 and even had to explain in the spring of 2008 when I went on a job interview why I looked like a Grizzly Adams stand in. Luckily they understood and got the job still haha. Sure Ive managed to find girls who dont mind watching games with me but I wish I could find one who’d be going insane with me at the Joe instead of shaking their head in embarassment at the drunk animal I tend to become after a few Molsons. (By the way,Sorry if you’ve had to sit next to me during one of my drunken rages at The Joe but if you’re just as passionate…look me up lol.) Theres a reason why we are Hockeytown and that is because we take our hockey very seriously no matter what the time of year and I wouldnt have it any other way.

by Jimbo5203 on Jul 30, 2009 6:40 AM CDT reply actions  

There are good days and bad days. The majority of the bad days come during that roller coaster period that runs from mid April to early June. I was so rattled by the Wings losing in 2006 to the Oilers that my girlfriend and I didn’t speak for two days afterward, because I snapped and said something regrettable (at least I think that’s what happened … part of my brain evaporated when the Oilers scored the go-ahead goal in Game 6). Nowadays we’re cool and she’s understanding of my sports-watching habits. Either that or she’s balancing things out by cheating on me with some artsy dude.

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by TDTyler on Jul 30, 2009 1:52 PM CDT reply actions  

ahhh, the simple things.....

i’m from michigan, grew up in warren. but family matters moved us south, to tennessee. i have been a life-long wings fan, so when i married a southern girl over 6 years ago she had to be indoctrinated to the ice! we go to pred games, each time the wings come down, plus a few more conference games, & gradually she has become the smack-talking, wing-loving hockey chick i’ve always dreamed of :)
go wings!!

by puckyou2 on Jul 30, 2009 8:01 PM CDT reply actions  

Haha, good subject.

I’m in kind on the same position as “IowaLion” My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. We live in St. Pete, Florida, and although FL has 2 hockey teams, people down here could really care less…keep on hanging to those stupid Rays. I’m originally from Saginaw, MI but moved down here at age 4 and yet still managed to play ICE hockey for 10+ years down here. Growing up going to Lightning games(and wings games when I was up visiting family), meeting players, going to their camps, etc. But my family being from Michigan, our hearts lay with the Wings. My girlfriend is from FL and lived here her whole life. She really didn’t like or respect sports at all. Although she had a slight love for hockey steming from the Mighty Ducks movies. I also loved those movies and so that was one of the things that connected us from the get-go. To make a long story, not so long…4 years later she has full blown Red Wings/hockey fever. Helping along the way I’m sure was Detroit winning the Cup in ‘08. Her first taste of getting behind such a great organization and actually have them WIN!! It is still tradition in my family for whenever the Wings are in town to play the Bolts to go see ’em(which they don’t this year, argh!). The last time the two teams met down here (last year) at the Forum, was not only her first time seeing the Red Wings live in action but also the first time meeting my whole family other than Mom and Dad, haha, what a night!!! Including my Grandfather, whom has been going to Wing’s games since the ol’ Olympia days and had season tix @ the Joe up until moving down here to stay a few yrs. ago. Her mother, still can’t believe I got her to actually like a sport and go for a team…helps alot that it’s an actual REAL sport and first-class team. Sadly the Lightning experience/games fails to compare to one at The Joe but it’s looking better, especially with the signing of Hedman and Ohlund. The only time her new love for hockey really has been a problem was the super tence days of this past years play-offs/finals. Much yelling and cursing…at EVERYTHING from us both, lol!! I’m sure we weren’t alone. Anyways… I’m glad that I was able to turn one more unsuspecting person into a true hockey/WING-NUT!! And that I have such a great girl to share such a great team and sport with…she actually gets what a legacy the Detroit Red Wings represent and is proud to be a part of it. As am I. DUH!! Who wouldn’t???

STAND TALL, FLY STRAIGHT, USA ALL THE WAY!

by DetroitALLtheWay09 on Jul 31, 2009 11:56 AM CDT reply actions  

A girl broke up with me over hockey....

or at least that was the stated reason. Apparently I care about nothing during the playoffs to the point where I just continually think about hockey. I am reasonable in the regular season. But I, like a couple others, are plagued with being in areas hostile to hockey. I spent most of my life in Oregon (closest hockey was in Vancouver) and now I live in upstate NY.

All of you who have found their significant other and they like hockey, you are very luck.

And Christy, how can you not find a male Red Wing fan to date in Detroit??

by westspec on Aug 3, 2009 5:01 PM CDT reply actions  

Hockey is my Girlfriend

Ok Kristy, so hocky is you’re boyfriend, well hockey is my girlfriend, she is sweet and lovely but not as sweet and lovely as you! So lets get together and have a foursome….there will be stars exploding all over Detroit, ya-hooooo! Twitter me!

by Jim P on Aug 6, 2009 9:54 PM CDT reply actions  

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